You do not have to win always to WIN

Yes, I mean it my friends. You can lose sometimes and still can be a winner. You might win an argument, but you might have lost a friend at the same time.

You might remember the famous dialogue from the movie Baazigar "Kabhi Kabhi Kuch Jeetne Ke Liya Kuch Haar Na Parta Hai, Aur Haar Ke Jeetne Wale Ko Baazigar Kehte Hain" This is true.

We are in a world where relationships really matter and all we do is build relations and break them. This is a common, general, well known, relationship make and break process. An average individual will indulge in many relationships. In the process of building and breaking them he/she gets hurt or hurt the other parties. Below are some of the things to remember that can help us being better human beings.

 

You do not have to win every argument you are into.

Do not try to prove your smartness by hurting people that matter the most.

Many a times, you feel your point is not accepted. Just for a while, whole heartedly step into their shoes and give the discussion a thought. You might feel they might be correct or you might feel it’s no point in continuing the discussion. Either ways you win.

Silence is the best refute to an argument. Follow whenever appropriate… Most of the time, follow it.

Have a listening ear. That way, you would be less willing to drive your point home, without listening to others. And in-turn you can be a better judge of what to speak and what not to.

You don’t have to show your anger instead you can refrain from speaking further. This way, even if your are right, people doesn’t get hurt by the way you speak to them in anger.  

Be patient. Be calm. Be a good listener.

All the above can be followed only if you think that the person who you are dealing with is worth your time and effort. So choose carefully.